Bismillah ar Rahman ar Rahim,As-salam-ualaikum wa rahmatulAllah Barkatahu,


My family is originally from Karachi, Pakistan, and though I was raised in the US, we are a moderately conservative Syed Bihari khandaan. I am unable to relocate anywhere from Chicago as I have shared custody of my daughter. 

I have always wanted a big family and there is nothing more godsent for me then if my soul mate already has children. They will become a part of my heart immediately.
I would immensely love if he came from a big family as well. Both families will be involved if things progress.

I believe in fighting to the death to preserve relationships and am looking for someone who shares the same thought. Values my presence in his life due to my personality, friendship, love, care and support of him. Someone who knows the ehmiyat of these qualities, can do qadr of of what he gets and willingly give the same back, Inshallah.

I love to... more relax and read as well as long drives with soulful or dance music blasting, traveling and just dancing in the rain, holding hands and letting loose. I feel like Im a good mixture of calm/crazy and religious/secular.
I have a bachelors and hold a religious degree as well.

Compatibility, chemistry and attraction are definitely important but I am looking for someone who holds the Deen close to their heart as well. Someone who at least follows the 5 pillars of Islam. Someone with whom I can grow with in the Deen and Dunya. A partner I would be proud to have as a role model for our children, both in the Deen and as a human being. A person who is on a similar wavelength as me and can build a beautiful family and aakhirat together. InshaAllah.

*A man should, even in anger, possess the ability to control his speech and actions. He should know the importance of what he might lose for eternity over an issue which can be resolved with some patience in a few minutes.*
I want a relationship where we can communicate openly and fix our issues before sleeping. Never go to bed angry or hurt. People who like to hang on to every small slight or hurt or just here for time pass, please please please please swipe left.

In a relationship, what I am looking for is what I intend to give:


Loyalty,

Patience,
Care,  
Honesty,

Respect,

Communication